Society taught me being normal is more worthy than being happy.
people usually donot care when you aren’t happy or when you are hunting for happiness. But sure eveyone has something or the other to say when you change your behavior from being normal.
Wow. You totally nailed it. Couldn’t agree more with what you’ve written.
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When I finally realised this after four decades on the planet, I felt really cheated. But, honestly, I’m the one who robbed myself. It was I who had given their words too much credence after all. You really hit the nail on the head here.
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Its never too late , they say. 🙂 im glad u liked what I wrote . Thank u for dropping in this valuable comment .
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Good one I like this one. I think normal is boring so I always try to mix it up whenever I can but I am also just being me because that is how I roll.
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To be the real you also takes up alot of confidence. Im glad you u liked my blog . Thank you for your kind words . Happy blogging
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Thank You Very Much
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And I know first hand on the rewards you can get if you act “normal.” I tried that four years ago, it is not worth it. I’m happy nowadays to not be “normal.” Although, there are people out there when care if you are happy or not. The key is to not try to find those people or attempt to persade people to be that person. I have a few friends who always care about me and deal with my odd, unique, cynical personality with out complaints. I only have a few, but they care and are amazing and that is enough. One I even have came to love in the past year and a half. I blog about him a lot. I love him, not like. You can find support something’s, but in times you don’t don’t have that luxury;you have to be strong. You’re happiness is far more important that society. You don’t need to be a completely perfect member of society. You be you, you do what you want. Weird is better than “normal.” Normal is boring, normal is the same as everyone else, normal is boring, normal isn’t that exciting, normal doesn’t have to be you or a weight on your shoulders, weighing you down until give up and just try to be normal. Never stop being yourself. Being happy doesn’t always mean you have to be normal to do so. Your happiness matters. Everyone liking you does not. And screw society! Society sucks! And you don’t have to as well! Never stop being you. Never give up on happiness. It will come back. Whether if it’s in 15 minutes or 15 years.
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Depressing, but true. I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed this. I’m currently in high school, and it’s extremely horrible there. But I hope you still be yourself. You are amazing!
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How true! In Sweden, I heard that they even have a word for it, it was ‘lagom’ (not too much of anything, moderation). Normal is a rather strange thing to attain.
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What is normal? You raised a very important question in your blog. If normalcy takes up too broad a space, then it becomes meaningless, since most of us would be normal. Thank you for your insight and have a Happy New Year!
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Yes its all about perspective. Thank you for your kind words and happy new year to you
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Thank you so much
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Very true!
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Thank you.
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That’s a good quote, Elica. Too many people strive to just ‘fit in’.
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Best wishes, Pete.
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Thank you so much .
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Thanks for your support… I hope you like my writez…. And I so lol continue reading your blog later on. Thanx!
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I love what you write . I can relate to so many post of yours. Your blog is amazing. Oh yes. Will be looking forward for appreciation or criticism . Happy blogging
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I never criticize… Every body is different and I love that… And I glad you can relate purely. Now we have a bond. Lol… Thanx!
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But I believe criticism helps in improving. Yeah sure. Bond 😌
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That is true also… But only for the strong hearted.
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Cuz some word can kill or make some one kill they self.
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Thank you for ur words.
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Very true, sometimes we have to live for ourselves than others. No one will pick up the pieces when you are hurt or down so they don’t certainly have the right to tell you when you stray from the status quo.
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Yes. True indeed.
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Live, don’t survive.
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You shouldn’t care about society Elica! I think that’s the first step to actually finding happiness. 🙂 anyway this is a nice blog you’ve got here! Welcome to the blogosphere and thank you so much for stopping by my blog. 🙂 Have a great day!
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Thank you for ur words. Im just a beginner your words means a lot. Happy blogging
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I’m fine with you being yourself, in all your emotions and states of being. Nice little insight
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Thank you
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Always. My community is very loving and supportive. Thank you for following, I hope you enjoy visiting
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True that👍
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